Expanding Your Pleasure Sex and Relationship Coaching
Are you longing to live a more embodied, passionate and ecstatic sensual life?
Sex and Relationship Coaching is focused on your future and on ways to deepen your intimacy, desires and passion.
We start from where you are now and co-create the way forward. Together our focus is to support you living a more embodied and passionate life.
Who are are the Expanding Your Pleasure Sessions For?
You are ready to:
- Cultivate your sexual energy as a constant presence in your life
- Develop real intimacy in your close relationships
- Have consistently better and more connected sex
- Confidently move into a new relationship or deepen your current relationship
- Find a new potency in your life and relationships
- Expand into a new, positive enjoyment of your sexuality
- Explore your kinkier desires and fantasies, safely
- Achieve clarity on your boundaries and desire
- Awaken new ways to discover pleasure through sensual play
- Know yourself worthy of desire and love
- Explore your capacity to surrender to desire.
Exploring Intimacy – One 1.5 hour session – £75
A one-off session addressing your needs and desires and setting a way forward.
Deepening Desire Series – Three 1.5 hour sessions – £200
The Deepening Desire series takes you deeper into your desires and the changes you want to see in your life.
Pursuing Passion – Seven 1.5 hour sessions – £400
The Pursuing Passion series is a chance to change your life. You will have the opportunity to explore your desires and your relationship with yourself and with sex. And to move forwards into a life of passion and ecstasy.
We will co-create an individual passion plan that will allow you to find ways to surrender to pleasure and discover your potency and how to bring your sexual energy into your life and into the world.
Sex and Relationship Coaching Sessions
The Coaching process may take a number of forms. This will depend on your goals and our joint decisions on how best to move forward. This might involve any of the following:
- Talking sessions
- Breathing exercises
- Body Work
For you to receive as much as possible from your work with me, you will receive TantraPlay practices. These are home practices designed to help you to explore and deepen your experience.
Find out More
If you would like to know more about coaching or are interested in working with me, please get in touch using the form below.
I recently met Mike, and had my first ever experience with Tantra. Naturally I was apprehensive to begin with, but within minutes of meeting Mike I felt relaxed and at ease. I found Mike to be likeable, with a calming influence, and very knowledgable on all things Tantra. There is no doubt I will be going back to learn more about the art of Tantra. For those of you who are curious, and like me, have wanted to experience this then you won’t be disappointed, and you will have nothing to lose, but a lot to gain.
In the British Navy, there has long been a rule that sailors can only serve clean-shaven or with a full beard. To move from clean-shaven to bearded required seeking “permission to grow” from the ship’s captain. After a reasonable time, if your beard had not fully grown, you could be told to shave it off again. It was somebody else’s decision.
When I started going to Tantra workshops, I was a novice, not only in relation to Tantra but also in relation to personal development. I thought that turning up was enough – that somehow by osmosis or magic, I would develop and grow as a person.
How do you know when you’re in the perfect relationship? What ticks the boxes? Would you recognise the perfect relationship if you had it?
Psychologist Robert Sternberg did. For a relationship to skyrocket in the best way possible, he believed that it needed to include three elements, in pretty much equal measures: Intimacy, Commitment and Passion, the points of the perfect love triangle.
This Christmas, how lovely it would be to give and receive the gift of presence.
At this time of year, many of us spend time with family or friends. And if not we have time with ourselves.
It is easy to allow ourselves to spend that time worrying about the future or musing over the past. This means that we are not paying attention to ourselves or to others in the moment.
We can all fall into bad habits in our communication with others, especially with those we are close to. I do it myself. I have a bad habit of finishing others’ sentences, which I am conscious of and guard against, not always successfully. We tailor the way that we speak to try to second-guess what the other wants.
Why? We fear their misunderstanding, their rejection if we get it wrong, that they will pull away.
This is an example of acting in ways that put a priority on the other’s experience rather than our own. It is our head getting in the way and telling us the old stories of how we should be if we want others to like us, rather than living our truth.
So, how do we change our patterns?
In order to receive the things that you want in sex, you need to be clear about your desires, express them and be ready to allow your partner to respond.
Many of us struggle to ask for what we want in our lives. This includes our sexual desires.
But sitting with unmet needs can be frustrating and stops you fulfilling your potential.
You can learn to ask for what you want.
As I grew up and into my thirties I sang in choirs where I learned to breathe for a specific purpose. Using my breath, controlling it, being conscious of it, became part of the action of singing.
Yet in all other parts of my life, I ignored my breathing. It just came and went as it would, without me being consciously aware of the magical process which keeps me alive.
It was easy to breathe and live in this way, without awareness that I was breathing. Easy because it happened automatically and easy because our breath and our emotions are connected. My habit of shallow breathing allowed me to live my life avoiding feeling anything too deeply.
Have you ever been in a relationship when something isn’t quite right?
At times, my lover and I would be strongly connected. Other days felt a little routine or that the well had run dry on things to talk about. Perhaps we were both generally uninspired with how and where the relationship was going.
If you’ve been there and know that feeling, all is not lost with your relationship.
But it is time to focus energy onto the relationship. Let’s take a look at the ten lasting habits of people who experience fulfilling intimate relationships.
In my relationships, I’ve learned that the quality of communication between myself and my beloved is crucial.
Sometimes those lessons have been more painful than I want to remember – the things I have got wrong and the things I have not challenged. But that pain taught me something about communication. It taught me the power of intimate communication.