by Mike | Mar 28, 2015 | Connection, Intimacy, Relationships, Sex |
How do you know when you’re in the perfect relationship? What ticks the boxes? Would you recognise the perfect relationship if you had it? Psychologist Robert Sternberg did. For a relationship to skyrocket in the best way possible, he believed that it needed to...
by Mike | Dec 21, 2014 | Communication, Connection, Intimacy, Relationships, Tantra |
The Gift of Presence This Christmas, how lovely it would be to give and receive the gift of presence. At this time of year, many of us spend time with family or friends. And if not we have time with ourselves. It is easy to allow ourselves to spend that time worrying...
by Mike | Dec 7, 2014 | Communication, Connection, Intimacy, Relationships |
We can all fall into bad habits in our communication with others, especially with those we are close to. I do it myself. I have a bad habit of finishing others’ sentences, which I am conscious of and guard against, not always successfully. We tailor the way...
by Mike | Oct 24, 2014 | Connection, Intimacy, Tantra |
As I grew up and into my thirties I sang in choirs where I learned to breathe for a specific purpose. Using my breath, controlling it, being conscious of it, became part of the action of singing. Yet in all other parts of my life, I ignored my breathing. It just came...
by Mike | Oct 10, 2014 | Communication, Connection, Intimacy, Relationships, Sex |
Have you ever been in a relationship when something isn’t quite right? I have. At times, my lover and I would be strongly connected. Other days felt a little routine or that the well had run dry on things to talk about. Perhaps we were both generally uninspired with...
by Mike | Jul 26, 2014 | Communication, Connection, Intimacy, Relationships, Sex |
In my relationships, I’ve learned that the quality of communication between myself and my beloved is crucial. Sometimes those lessons have been more painful than I want to remember – the things I have got wrong and the things I have not challenged. But that pain...
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